If somebody says everything is OK in a sec, they try to end the conversation. Everything works out when we speak through it. It could be OK at the end of the subject if we have people to talk through to straighten the mind.
I think it's a fall back when I don't know what to say to ease someone else's pain.
Even though it's an empty phrase, I keep saying it.
I caught myself saying it 10 minutes before my mother-in-law passed away.
As she lay in incredible pain, gasping in and out of consciousness after giving up eating and drinking days before.
I held her hand. I told her everything would be okay, that she was lovely, that she would feel better soon.
The only true part was that she was lovely. A brilliant MIL.
Everybody knew she was fading, we all knew she was passing away, but still I said those words over and over. Like I was trying to convince myself or something. I don't know why I kept saying a lie, except that they were words of comfort, meant to give comfort in a time the lady who meant so much to me was leaving.
If somebody says everything is OK in a sec, they try to end the conversation. Everything works out when we speak through it. It could be OK at the end of the subject if we have people to talk through to straighten the mind.
I'm always saying/wishing things will be okay.
I think it's a fall back when I don't know what to say to ease someone else's pain.
Even though it's an empty phrase, I keep saying it.
I caught myself saying it 10 minutes before my mother-in-law passed away.
As she lay in incredible pain, gasping in and out of consciousness after giving up eating and drinking days before.
I held her hand. I told her everything would be okay, that she was lovely, that she would feel better soon.
The only true part was that she was lovely. A brilliant MIL.
Everybody knew she was fading, we all knew she was passing away, but still I said those words over and over. Like I was trying to convince myself or something. I don't know why I kept saying a lie, except that they were words of comfort, meant to give comfort in a time the lady who meant so much to me was leaving.